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Jet Noir

Sep 21, 20187 min read

So You’ve Decided To Date Jet Noir: A What to Expect Guide

Here are ten things you should know about dating the recovering asshole Jet Noir AKA Jet [redacted] AKA [redacted] [redacted] AKA Jay AKA...

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Jet Noir

Nov 21, 20176 min read

Ethical Non-Monogamy

November 18th marked the 52nd wedding anniversary of my parents. They still live in the house in which I was raised. I grew up...

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Jet Noir

Sep 14, 20176 min read

The Wedding Party

The California King-sized bed had been moved into the main living area, the largest room in the house. The entirety of the home, inside...

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Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

Jet Noir

Aug 7, 20174 min read

Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

There’s been a lot of controversy as to whether a transgender person should/should not does/doesn’t have to disclose their status as...

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Jet Noir

Jun 4, 20164 min read

Holding Space For The Lament

“I just need you to hold space.” That’s the phrase that I’ve decided to begin using when people derail my lament. The phrase “hold...

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Goals: What Gets Us Out Of Bed (Energy For A Busy Life, Part 7/7)

Jet Noir

May 21, 20162 min read

Goals: What Gets Us Out Of Bed (Energy For A Busy Life, Part 7/7)

This series comes to a close with the most important element of motivation, goals. Perhaps on an interview or a first date you may have...

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Attitude = Vitality Level: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 6/7

Jet Noir

May 7, 20162 min read

Attitude = Vitality Level: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 6/7

Hello, Friends! As promised (weeks ago) here is part 6 in the 7 part series about keeping up a high level of energy to keep up with a...

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Jet Noir

Apr 30, 20163 min read

I Am Not A Threat

On Friday, April 29, 2016 I performed a Spoken Word piece while doing a reverse strip tease. Here are the words and my attire in...

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Jet Noir

Apr 23, 20162 min read

Toxic Words

Dear Internet, Please stop blaming the calendar year for the events that displease us. “Fuck 2016” is the equivalent of blaming the...

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Jet Noir

Apr 16, 20164 min read

The next time you (I) fall in love…

Dear Jet, If you’re reading this letter that Past Jet wrote to you, then it may already be too late. You fall in love too easily. To be...

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Revitalization Through Dance: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 5/7

Jet Noir

Apr 9, 20163 min read

Revitalization Through Dance: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 5/7

I’m a dancer. It’s taken me a long time to be able to say that with confidence. I’ve been a model since I was 12. Over the years, I’ve...

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Sex Gets Me Up: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 4/7

Jet Noir

Mar 26, 20164 min read

Sex Gets Me Up: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 4/7

Sex as a form of caffeine. A ridiculous concept that I hope all of you are willing to try. I drink about 2.5 cups of coffee a day. The...

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The Easiest Difficult Thing You Can Do (Is Change The World)

Jet Noir

Mar 19, 20165 min read

The Easiest Difficult Thing You Can Do (Is Change The World)

As part of a school assignment, I recently began some volunteer work and something I heard resonated with me. The gentleman leading our...

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Jet Noir

Mar 5, 20163 min read

Unrequited

About 15 years ago, I finished my second book (a collection of poems) entitled, “Heavy Mettle.” Lately, I’ve been revisiting the...

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Jet Noir

Feb 17, 20167 min read

A Problem With The Fitness Industry

Greetings! Last week, I promised part two of the seven part series on how I keep my energy levels up. That will show up next week. First,...

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Jet Noir

Jan 29, 20168 min read

Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?

Did you ever hear the one about the woman who had multiple orgasms… for three hours!? Her orgasms weren’t all pleasure, nor were they a...

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Jet Noir

Jan 15, 20162 min read

Portraits Of Gratitude

There are times when I sit down and write without a goal or promise to myself. In that freeform mode of thinking (often fueled by...

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Jet Noir

Jan 8, 20167 min read

I’m Not A Real Man

What does it take to be a real man? I don’t know. For all of the gentlemen reading this, I have bad news. You’ll never know either. In my...

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Jet Noir

Jan 1, 20164 min read

Announcements for 2016!

Happy New Year! I’ve been in the lab plotting and planning some changes for 2016. I’m not talking about macro-level changes that will...

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Find My Friends [Part 4/4]: Get Your 💩 Together

Jet Noir

Nov 23, 20155 min read

Find My Friends [Part 4/4]: Get Your 💩 Together

I was once asked what type of work shop I would create (of the self-improvement variety) to which I promptly replied, “Get your 💩...

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