dating

Jet Noir

Nov 18, 20183 min read

Dating (A Brief History + Current Mood) Part 3 of 3

In any pattern, we must examine the constants. The first constant is me, I’ve been working on myself to be a better man and (potential)...

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Jet Noir

Nov 18, 20183 min read

Dating (A Brief History + Current Mood) Part 2 of 3

What happened to change my views on dating? Over the span of ~30 days, ~15 dates cancelled, rescheduled, flaked, or just plain stood me...

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Jet Noir

Sep 21, 20187 min read

So You’ve Decided To Date Jet Noir: A What to Expect Guide

Here are ten things you should know about dating the recovering asshole Jet Noir AKA Jet [redacted] AKA [redacted] [redacted] AKA Jay AKA...

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Jet Noir

Nov 21, 20176 min read

Ethical Non-Monogamy

November 18th marked the 52nd wedding anniversary of my parents. They still live in the house in which I was raised. I grew up...

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Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

Jet Noir

Aug 7, 20174 min read

Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

There’s been a lot of controversy as to whether a transgender person should/should not does/doesn’t have to disclose their status as...

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Jet Noir

Apr 16, 20164 min read

The next time you (I) fall in love…

Dear Jet, If you’re reading this letter that Past Jet wrote to you, then it may already be too late. You fall in love too easily. To be...

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Jet Noir

Mar 5, 20163 min read

Unrequited

About 15 years ago, I finished my second book (a collection of poems) entitled, “Heavy Mettle.” Lately, I’ve been revisiting the...

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Jet Noir

Jan 29, 20168 min read

Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?

Did you ever hear the one about the woman who had multiple orgasms… for three hours!? Her orgasms weren’t all pleasure, nor were they a...

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Jet Noir

Jan 15, 20162 min read

Portraits Of Gratitude

There are times when I sit down and write without a goal or promise to myself. In that freeform mode of thinking (often fueled by...

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Jet Noir

Jan 8, 20167 min read

I’m Not A Real Man

What does it take to be a real man? I don’t know. For all of the gentlemen reading this, I have bad news. You’ll never know either. In my...

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Find My Friends [Part 4/4]: Get Your 💩 Together

Jet Noir

Nov 23, 20155 min read

Find My Friends [Part 4/4]: Get Your 💩 Together

I was once asked what type of work shop I would create (of the self-improvement variety) to which I promptly replied, “Get your 💩...

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Find My Friends [Part 2/4]: Interracial Dating

Jet Noir

Nov 9, 20155 min read

Find My Friends [Part 2/4]: Interracial Dating

Good Morning! This week’s post is part two in a four-part series of how I choose my friends. I’m writing this in hopes that it may...

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Jet Noir

Jul 26, 20156 min read

A Dick Pic Is Worth A Thousand Words

Good Morning Friends! Nothing like waking up to a dick [pic] in your [mail] box, am I right? Regardless of your gender, there’s a chance...

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