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Jet Noir

Nov 18, 20183 min read

Dating (A Brief History + Current Mood) Part 3 of 3

In any pattern, we must examine the constants. The first constant is me, I’ve been working on myself to be a better man and (potential)...

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Jet Noir

Nov 18, 20183 min read

Dating (A Brief History + Current Mood) Part 2 of 3

What happened to change my views on dating? Over the span of ~30 days, ~15 dates cancelled, rescheduled, flaked, or just plain stood me...

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Jet Noir

Nov 21, 20176 min read

Ethical Non-Monogamy

November 18th marked the 52nd wedding anniversary of my parents. They still live in the house in which I was raised. I grew up...

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Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

Jet Noir

Aug 7, 20174 min read

Disclosing If You’re Transgender Before A Date

There’s been a lot of controversy as to whether a transgender person should/should not does/doesn’t have to disclose their status as...

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Jet Noir

Apr 16, 20164 min read

The next time you (I) fall in love…

Dear Jet, If you’re reading this letter that Past Jet wrote to you, then it may already be too late. You fall in love too easily. To be...

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Sex Gets Me Up: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 4/7

Jet Noir

Mar 26, 20164 min read

Sex Gets Me Up: Energy For A Busy Life, Part 4/7

Sex as a form of caffeine. A ridiculous concept that I hope all of you are willing to try. I drink about 2.5 cups of coffee a day. The...

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Jet Noir

Mar 5, 20163 min read

Unrequited

About 15 years ago, I finished my second book (a collection of poems) entitled, “Heavy Mettle.” Lately, I’ve been revisiting the...

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Jet Noir

Jan 22, 20168 min read

Let’s Talk About Sex(ual Health), Baby!

Good Morning! How’s your sex life? I’m writing this in hopes that it’s a great sex life, filled with healthy, positive communication...

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Jet Noir

Jan 15, 20162 min read

Portraits Of Gratitude

There are times when I sit down and write without a goal or promise to myself. In that freeform mode of thinking (often fueled by...

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Find My Friends [Part 2/4]: Interracial Dating

Jet Noir

Nov 9, 20155 min read

Find My Friends [Part 2/4]: Interracial Dating

Good Morning! This week’s post is part two in a four-part series of how I choose my friends. I’m writing this in hopes that it may...

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Jet Noir

Oct 12, 20154 min read

A Perversion Of Love?

“Today I believe in the possibility of love; that is why I endeavor to trace its imperfections, its perversions.” -Frantz Fanon In a city...

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Jet Noir

Apr 19, 20158 min read

The Mutual Experience Of Good Sex

When I was in my teens, I remember when my mother took me to one of her favorite bookstores. The Shrine of the Black Madonna Bookstore...

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Four Ways to Stop Making Assumptions (Keeping The Third Agreement)

Jet Noir

Mar 29, 20158 min read

Four Ways to Stop Making Assumptions (Keeping The Third Agreement)

To paraphrase Samuel L. Jackson (from “The Long Kiss Goodnight”), “When you make an assumption you make an ass out of both ‘u’ and...

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Jet Noir

Nov 16, 20143 min read

The Balance of Vulnerability

Why is she angry? I always wondered why she was so angry. Why is he becoming aggressive? I always wondered why he would get so...

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Jet Noir

Oct 19, 20145 min read

Wikipedia Says I’m A Sex Worker

The term sex worker once confused my literal mind. I understood it to mean someone that was paid for sexual encounters (be they virtual...

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